Making Bed
The INTJ/Neurodivergent Perspective on Making the Bed
For many INTJs and neurodivergent individuals, making the bed can feel like an exercise in futility. The concept of spending time on something that will be undone by the end of the day just doesn't align with their logical and efficiency-driven mindset. Here’s why:
- Complete Waste of Time:
- "Making my bed feels like an absolute waste of time. It's a chore that only serves aesthetic purposes, and I always get flak from others for not doing it. It's reassuring to see a consensus among others who feel the same way."
- Psychological Benefits:
- "I might be in the minority here, but I make my bed almost every morning. For me, it’s about motivation and combating depression. Starting my day with this small task makes it less likely that I’ll crawl back into bed and waste the day. Since I started my own business, I can't afford to let depression take over. Making my bed gives me a sense of control and accomplishment, sparking a chain reaction for other small wins throughout the day. Plus, arranging the pillows and tucking in the sheets doesn't take long!"
- Comfort and Practicality:
- "I agree, it's a waste of time. Actually, I hate made beds because they feel too stiff. I roll around a lot, and I have to rip the blankets out from being tucked in. I prefer the ease of getting into an unmade bed and pulling up whichever combination of blankets I need that night. In the summer, I like a sheet, but otherwise, I want a soft blanket for comfort and a comforter for warmth."
- Efficiency and Context:
- "Making beds is factually a waste of time. You're doing work that will be undone the same day, often only seen by the bed maker or a significant other. I don't currently make my bed, but if I had a date or expected company in my room, I might do it for the sake of appearances."
The Inconsistent Schedule Conundrum
For those with inconsistent sleeping schedules, making the bed can seem even more pointless. The irregularity of their sleep patterns means that the bed is often used at various times of the day, making the act of making it a futile endeavor.
A Balancing Act
Ultimately, the decision to make the bed comes down to individual preference and context. Some INTJs and neurodivergent individuals find value in the small routine as a way to combat mental health struggles and instill a sense of order. Others view it as an unnecessary task that offers little return on investment. Both perspectives are valid, highlighting the diversity of thought within these communities.
However, when it comes to the debate, not making the bed is a clear winner for the author. But if you live with someone else, keeping the bed organized might be the painful daily task you have to do every day for the sake of tidiness. (drops mic with frustration)
